They claim that it is because of women like me, who perpetuate this ugly reality, that older women cannot find men. All the young, drop-dead gorgeous women accompanying older men were not dragged there by force; I can assure you.
So when a beautiful woman in her 20s or 30s meets a man who is in his 50s and has the world in the palm of his hand, that is sexy and alluring to her.
Unlike with younger guys, the experience with Tom was more about the two of us than just him and his desires. With him, I felt like I went from virgin to vixen in record time. He reminds me not to wish my life away because, in the blink of an eye, I'll be his age.
If he encourages you to do this before you’re ready, you will forever resent him for what you missed out on.When Tom and I first met, I was only 18—I certainly didn't want my peers judging me, thinking my being with a partner older than some of their parents was "weird" or "disgusting;" or by older women who thought he was only with me for the sex or that I was one manifestation aspect of a mid-life crisis. We knew our love was real and didn't let the naysayers influence our romance.The old saying "treat others as you would like to be treated" really comes into play here.3. Self-consciousness aside, our relationship slowly progressed from sideward glances and intellectual conversation over lunch to long kisses and passionate embraces during afternoons spent in bed. Tom has taught me to appreciate the moment I'm in and not live for the future—as we young people will do, particularly in today's society of acquisition and titles. Understanding that you have to live your life for yourself is such an important realization, and one that many of us forget when it comes to everything from what type of career to pursue to whom we fall in love with.You guys should consider what it will be like for a much younger lady to age by your side as you really age.If you’re convinced that a supremely hot sugar baby will make a devoted wife, please take note of these warnings for young women who like to date old.